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How do we change our thoughts when we feel stuck in the mud that life sometimes slings at us?  First, we look at our intention and language.

These cornerstones of change are quick to pass over as insignificant. Yet, a simple technique of changing our language can change our results in life.

We’ve all heard a lot about positive thinking...and many ask the question “How do you find positive when you
are stuck in life and feeling unsupported, unloved and ignored? The first step is to try to imagine “What would I rather have in life?” at that moment (a reliable car, a new love, a new job).  Yet, this is only the beginning.

Using positive thinking alone to bring that desired option into reality would leave out the emotional and physical
world. By saying “I am a money magnet.” the body reacts strongly by bringing up all the experiences (remember EVERY experience we’ve had is stored in a cell in the body) that are in the way of that statement. This can feel quite uncomfortable, in a matter of moments when the body brings up all the times we let money or opportunities
to create money slip through our fingers.

Interestingly, it also brings up all the times we observed that in our family line through moments of time or stories (remember all the ‘hard luck’ stories from family - “I walked through snow to school with no shoes....” “We were so poor, we couldn’t even....”). In essence, the body disagrees with the positive statement through it’s storehouse of
experience. So, we throw up our hands in exasperation and say “See it doesn’t work.” and life continues as it always has.

Consider that the ‘gem’ in the discomfort is the motivation to change our lives and create what we want in life. All power in life is from within; it must be developed, unfolded, and cultivated.

Being receptive is acquired much in the same way physical strength comes from working out...or a good golf swing
comes from practice. As we demonstrate (practice) our new found knowledge we gain power in our lives. This is the result of our ability to think; therefore thought is the germination of all evolution in human consciousness.

As you intend what you want, pay little attention to the details of the physiological process involved.  Paying too much attention to the details actually inhibits the intended outcome from producing.  This takes a “trust in the process” that is acquired from an attitude of non-interference.

When we are anxious about falling asleep, we rarely get there. When we doubt a desired intention, we are actually sending out a self-defeating intention.

To be successful, hold in mind the next step necessary to your clear intention in life. Have confidence in the outcome. Add the word “able” to your positive intentions.   “I am able to be a money magnet.”  The body will go to a time of remembering when you were a money magnet and actually join with you to create more in your life. Thoughts are the materials we build with and the imagination is the mental workshop. Use Rapid Eye to clear the clutter in the workshop, so you can more easily find your tools. The growth process brings together self-knowledge and self awareness. To manifest we must move through growth, change and flow in order to BE our best and create our visions.

Rapid Eye Technology (RET) is a safe, natural way to release stress and trauma at the DNA level leaving us empowered to live a happier, more productive life. At the heart of RET is a technology that affects energy
on all levels. Using blinking, breathing, and eye movement techniques RET gently mimics a condition of sleep known as rem (rapid eye movement) sleep which happens several times per sleep cycle and is our body’s natural discharge mechanism. Accessing the whole mind/body system while in an awake state allows you to be in control of your own journey without reliving incidents. RET uses the natural blinking reflex to open up the neuropathways where energetic memories of our personal and inherited traumatic experiences are trapped. For instance, being
trapped in the birth canal, trapped in a car accident, or trapped in a relationship are all on the same
neuropathway.

Rapid Eye provides an opportunity to blink it out.   RET is a two-part process that involves both release and reframe. A skilled RET Therapist not only uses your own feelings to speak to your brain to identify and release
trapped energy patterns, but also helps you to learn and understand new skills for living that will facilitate
the creation of more productive patterns for your future.

You will be in a powerful position to create a new life reality for yourself. With your own discovery of new skills, ideas and experiences, you are less likely to repeat the “do what you’ve always done, get what you’ve always gotten” pattern of being stuck in your life. When you identify your nonproductive beliefs, you become aware of the
personal power you have within yourself and are able to change your life circumstances.

posted July 2008 in the RET newsletter by Claudia Bianca